by David Nichtern, via Huffington Post
Sometimes our "negative" habits (like anger, pride, jealousy, craving etc.) seem to come up like a cyclone out of nowhere.
Often we might feel powerless to change them, let alone even notice that we are in the grip of what the Buddhists would call a "klesha" attack. "Klesha" may sound like Yiddish, but it's actually Sanskrit for an obscuration, or perhaps, in a more contemporary sense, a neurotic upheaval.
[Following] are five steps toward recognizing and cutting the momentum of negative habitual patterns and klesha attacks.
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Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Singapore's Water Polo Team Will Stop Using Its Curved Phallus Speedos
Question: Should the Singapore government be more embarrassed by the half-moon swimsuits, or by the fact that it is wasting time giving fashion critiques to the men's water polo team?
Monday, November 29, 2010
Gay TSA Employees Shouldn't Be Allowed to Pat Down Travelers
Homophobia - alive and well in the heart and mind of Peter LaBarbera:
It's doubtful that those travelers were worried about whether or not the TSA agent conducting the screen was getting "turned on" in the process. But that is exactly the concern voiced by Peter LaBarbera, a long-time anti-gay activist and director of Americas for Truth About Homosexuality (AFTHA). LaBarbera's issued a press release detailing his concern that gay TSA employees will "get turned on" while patting down travelers of the same sex.
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Thursday, November 25, 2010
Who's That Queer? [Stephin Merritt]
Stephin Merritt is an American singer-songwriter based in Los Angeles best known as the principal singer and songwriter in the band The Magnetic Fields.

Merritt is gay, and his lyrics are known for bending and blurring gender lines; examples include the song "When My Boy Walks Down the Street", which contains the lyric "and he's going to be my wife." He is fascinated with the undead, often making veiled or explicit references to vampires. Other frequent motifs in his lyrics include the age 17, dancing, seasons (most often summer), youth, old age, cities (especially New York City and Paris), the moon, the sun, the stars, rain, the night, marriage, blue eyes, faces, trains and railroads, the road, crying, murder, drinking, musical instruments, and love.
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Wednesday, November 24, 2010
Peter, I am HIV-positive, what about life insurance?
[Peter Pointers is here 4 YOU, as a service to LifeLube readers - whatever question you may have regarding sexual health, physical health, mental/emotional and spiritual health - ask him. He will find the answers you are looking 4. helped by a team of experts. Below is a recent Q&A you may be interested to read.]
Question:
Hi Peter,
I had a question. My partner and I are looking for life insurance, it may not be an issue for him, but an issue lies with me, since I'm HIV-positive, I feel it may be a little harder to find an insurance company that is willing to take me on as a client. I'm writing to see if you have any recommendations. Something affordable, traditional, and just plain gay friendly. Thanks.
Answer:
Hi,
I’m happy that you are looking into options for getting life insurance. Unfortunately, this information was a little hard to come by. However, here’s what I found.
I was able to talk with Michael McFadden, the Director of Social Services at Howard Brown Health Center. He gave me some great information to share with you:
Here are three companies in Illinois that will provide Life Insurance policies to people with HIV...
1. Colonial Penn Guaranteed
877.877.8052
2. Physicians Life Insurance
888.932.7642
3. United of Omaha
866.351.1064
Please note: The policies offered are usually ‘Small Guaranteed Issued Plans.’ They may not pay out if a policy owner dies within the first 2 years of holding the policy. After two years, they often only pay out approximately $10,000. There may be preexisting condition clauses. It is very important for clients to review the entire policy thoroughly before enrolling.
AIDS Legal Council of Chicago is available to review a policy with/for a client before enrolling. Contact ALCC at 312.427.8990”
I hope that information helps you out. If there is more that you need, please don’t hesitate to follow-up with me.
Be well,
Peter Pointers
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Tuesday, November 23, 2010
BIG: Trial Shows AIDS Pill Can Prevent HIV Among Gay Men
AIDS Drug Shown to Prevent HIV
in Multinational Trial of HIV-Negative Gay Men
Data Suggests Need for Rectal Gel Option
[via our sister IRMA - International Rectal Microbicide Advocates]
Results of the world’s first efficacy trial of an HIV-prevention approach called oral pre-exposure prophylaxis, or PrEP, were released online in the New England Journal of Medicine today. Data from this trial, called iPrEx, indicated an estimated 43.8% reduction of new HIV infections among men who took an antiretroviral tablet daily to prevent HIV, compared to those who took a placebo pill.[Read the article.]
“This discovery alters the HIV prevention landscape forever. While this level of efficacy is relatively strong, PrEP is not quite ready for prime time and work remains before this strategy is rolled out. However, we are thrilled to have a new prevention option beyond male and female condoms visible on the horizon,” said Jim Pickett, Director of Advocacy at AIDS Foundation of Chicago and Chair of IRMA – International Rectal Microbicide Advocates.
The iPrEx trial evaluated the safety and efficacy of the antiretroviral (ARV) drug TDF/FTC (brand name Truvada) taken once daily for HIV prevention among HIV-negative gay men, transgender women, and other men who have sex with men (MSM).
The participants, 2,499 in all, included individuals from Peru, Ecuador, Brazil, South Africa, Thailand and the United States. Half the men were randomized into the active arm that received Truvada, and the other half were randomized into the placebo arm and received a look-alike pill with no active ingredient. The participants and the researchers did not know who was in either arm.
Enrollment for the trial began in June 2007 and was completed in December 2009. The primary analysis of the results released today includes participants who were followed until May 1, 2010, or for an average of 14 months.
Each participant was tested for HIV at monthly trial visits and given intensive pre-and-post test counseling. Additionally, they were regularly screened for sexually transmitted infections and received condoms, making up a very robust prevention package.
At the end of the trial, there were 36 infections in participants who received Truvada and 64 in recipients who took the placebo. Researchers calculated that the use of Truvada reduced new HIV infections by an estimated 43.8% overall when compared to placebo. While there appeared to be few side effects reported by the men who were taking the Truvada tablet, it is clear that much more information is needed regarding long term safety of this drug.
Other PrEP trials are ongoing. Results from studies among heterosexuals in Africa and injection drug users in Thailand are expected next year.
It is important to emphasize the factors that led to successful use of Truvada to prevent HIV in iPrEx. Taking the pill regularly was one of the most important. Efficacy appeared to be higher among those participants who took the study drugs consistently. Men who did not take the pill regularly did not see a protective benefit. Regular HIV testing and ongoing monitoring by a physician was also critical. For this strategy to work, each of these pieces, including a doctor’s prescription, need to be in place.
“The study team found that about half of the men in the active arm of the trial were in fact not taking their pills regularly, if at all,” said Pickett. “It is not clear why this happened, but it certainly suggests that alternate means of using ARVs to prevent HIV infection may be more acceptable for these men. The primary means of transmission among gay men and other MSM is through unprotected anal intercourse. If we develop an ARV as a gel or lubricant applied rectally – a rectal microbicide – it could be more acceptable for some individuals who don’t like taking pills.”
Many gay men and other MSM already use lubricants for anal intercourse, so they wouldn’t have to modify their behavior to achieve higher levels of protection with a rectal microbicide formulated as a lubricant. Adopting a new behavior—such as taking a pill every day—can be a considerable challenge for some.
Dr. Ian McGowan, one of the principal investigators of the Microbicide Trials Network and Scientific Vice Chair of IRMA agreed. "The data from the iPrEx study are encouraging but the less than ideal adherence rate to oral PrEP clearly show that we need additional prevention approaches such as rectal microbicides that could be used by men and women at risk of HIV infection through unprotected receptive anal intercourse," he said.
The world's third rectal microbicide trial is currently underway with sites in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; Boston, Massachusetts; and Birmingham, Alabama. Scientists are testing the rectal safety and acceptability of tenofovir gel, a microbicide developed for vaginal use that has shown promise for preventing HIV through vaginal intercourse. Depending on the outcome of this new study, tenofovir gel could be further evaluated to determine if it can reduce the risk of HIV among both men and women who engage in receptive anal intercourse.
This new Phase I rectal microbicide study, known as MTN-007, aims to determine if rectal use of tenofovir gel is safe, and in particular, does not cause cells in the rectum to become more vulnerable to HIV. Investigators will also ask trial participants questions regarding the gel's desirability. The trial is planning to recruit a total of 60 men and women.
While the rectal microbicide field has gained significant momentum, more focus and resources are needed. In 2010, U.S. $7.2 million is being spent globally on rectal microbicide research. IRMA has calculated that annual investments must increase by 40% from 2011 – 2014, to U.S. $10 million/year and must increase further to U.S. $44 million (a six-fold increase) in the years 2015 – 2020. These targets need to be met to ensure a minimum of candidate products are moving through the research pipeline into late stage testing for effectiveness.
Just as we use a combination of drugs to treat individuals living with HIV, we need a combination approach to prevention. That approach should include male and female condoms, sterile syringes, and access to treatment as well as new interventions like PrEP, topical microbicides, and vaccines. Adequate funding must continue for all of the methods we currently have, and it must continue for the new strategies that are still being developed as well.
In a global context where millions of individuals do not have access to life saving medications, it is imperative that funding provided for PrEP accessibility not compete with funding for treatment. Treatment funding has not kept pace with the need.
IRMA congratulates the trial sponsors, scientific collaborators and partners who conducted this landmark trial, with special thanks to the 2,499 participants in the study who volunteered so much of their time and energy. Their extraordinary contribution to HIV prevention science brings us another step closer to a day without AIDS, and for that we are supremely grateful.
in Multinational Trial of HIV-Negative Gay Men
Data Suggests Need for Rectal Gel Option
[via our sister IRMA - International Rectal Microbicide Advocates]
Results of the world’s first efficacy trial of an HIV-prevention approach called oral pre-exposure prophylaxis, or PrEP, were released online in the New England Journal of Medicine today. Data from this trial, called iPrEx, indicated an estimated 43.8% reduction of new HIV infections among men who took an antiretroviral tablet daily to prevent HIV, compared to those who took a placebo pill.[Read the article.]
“This discovery alters the HIV prevention landscape forever. While this level of efficacy is relatively strong, PrEP is not quite ready for prime time and work remains before this strategy is rolled out. However, we are thrilled to have a new prevention option beyond male and female condoms visible on the horizon,” said Jim Pickett, Director of Advocacy at AIDS Foundation of Chicago and Chair of IRMA – International Rectal Microbicide Advocates.
The iPrEx trial evaluated the safety and efficacy of the antiretroviral (ARV) drug TDF/FTC (brand name Truvada) taken once daily for HIV prevention among HIV-negative gay men, transgender women, and other men who have sex with men (MSM).
The participants, 2,499 in all, included individuals from Peru, Ecuador, Brazil, South Africa, Thailand and the United States. Half the men were randomized into the active arm that received Truvada, and the other half were randomized into the placebo arm and received a look-alike pill with no active ingredient. The participants and the researchers did not know who was in either arm.
Enrollment for the trial began in June 2007 and was completed in December 2009. The primary analysis of the results released today includes participants who were followed until May 1, 2010, or for an average of 14 months.
Each participant was tested for HIV at monthly trial visits and given intensive pre-and-post test counseling. Additionally, they were regularly screened for sexually transmitted infections and received condoms, making up a very robust prevention package.
At the end of the trial, there were 36 infections in participants who received Truvada and 64 in recipients who took the placebo. Researchers calculated that the use of Truvada reduced new HIV infections by an estimated 43.8% overall when compared to placebo. While there appeared to be few side effects reported by the men who were taking the Truvada tablet, it is clear that much more information is needed regarding long term safety of this drug.
Other PrEP trials are ongoing. Results from studies among heterosexuals in Africa and injection drug users in Thailand are expected next year.
It is important to emphasize the factors that led to successful use of Truvada to prevent HIV in iPrEx. Taking the pill regularly was one of the most important. Efficacy appeared to be higher among those participants who took the study drugs consistently. Men who did not take the pill regularly did not see a protective benefit. Regular HIV testing and ongoing monitoring by a physician was also critical. For this strategy to work, each of these pieces, including a doctor’s prescription, need to be in place.
“The study team found that about half of the men in the active arm of the trial were in fact not taking their pills regularly, if at all,” said Pickett. “It is not clear why this happened, but it certainly suggests that alternate means of using ARVs to prevent HIV infection may be more acceptable for these men. The primary means of transmission among gay men and other MSM is through unprotected anal intercourse. If we develop an ARV as a gel or lubricant applied rectally – a rectal microbicide – it could be more acceptable for some individuals who don’t like taking pills.”
Many gay men and other MSM already use lubricants for anal intercourse, so they wouldn’t have to modify their behavior to achieve higher levels of protection with a rectal microbicide formulated as a lubricant. Adopting a new behavior—such as taking a pill every day—can be a considerable challenge for some.
Dr. Ian McGowan, one of the principal investigators of the Microbicide Trials Network and Scientific Vice Chair of IRMA agreed. "The data from the iPrEx study are encouraging but the less than ideal adherence rate to oral PrEP clearly show that we need additional prevention approaches such as rectal microbicides that could be used by men and women at risk of HIV infection through unprotected receptive anal intercourse," he said.
The world's third rectal microbicide trial is currently underway with sites in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; Boston, Massachusetts; and Birmingham, Alabama. Scientists are testing the rectal safety and acceptability of tenofovir gel, a microbicide developed for vaginal use that has shown promise for preventing HIV through vaginal intercourse. Depending on the outcome of this new study, tenofovir gel could be further evaluated to determine if it can reduce the risk of HIV among both men and women who engage in receptive anal intercourse.
This new Phase I rectal microbicide study, known as MTN-007, aims to determine if rectal use of tenofovir gel is safe, and in particular, does not cause cells in the rectum to become more vulnerable to HIV. Investigators will also ask trial participants questions regarding the gel's desirability. The trial is planning to recruit a total of 60 men and women.
While the rectal microbicide field has gained significant momentum, more focus and resources are needed. In 2010, U.S. $7.2 million is being spent globally on rectal microbicide research. IRMA has calculated that annual investments must increase by 40% from 2011 – 2014, to U.S. $10 million/year and must increase further to U.S. $44 million (a six-fold increase) in the years 2015 – 2020. These targets need to be met to ensure a minimum of candidate products are moving through the research pipeline into late stage testing for effectiveness.
Just as we use a combination of drugs to treat individuals living with HIV, we need a combination approach to prevention. That approach should include male and female condoms, sterile syringes, and access to treatment as well as new interventions like PrEP, topical microbicides, and vaccines. Adequate funding must continue for all of the methods we currently have, and it must continue for the new strategies that are still being developed as well.
In a global context where millions of individuals do not have access to life saving medications, it is imperative that funding provided for PrEP accessibility not compete with funding for treatment. Treatment funding has not kept pace with the need.
IRMA congratulates the trial sponsors, scientific collaborators and partners who conducted this landmark trial, with special thanks to the 2,499 participants in the study who volunteered so much of their time and energy. Their extraordinary contribution to HIV prevention science brings us another step closer to a day without AIDS, and for that we are supremely grateful.
Monday, November 22, 2010
80 is the new 79
What is important to an 80 year old is “right now,” not a week from Friday, next February, another survey or study or a panel discussion.
On a Monday, Garbo was asked to dinner on Saturday. “How do I know if I’ll be hungry on Saturday?” she asked.
by Leon Liberman
I turned 80 on October 24, which is United Nations Day, a little-known holiday that having lived in a half-dozen countries on four continents I think of as meant for me.
Old age doesn’t sneak up on you. It happens suddenly. It seems that overnight you go from a “beautiful eyes” pick-up line from someone sitting on the adjoining bar stool saying “nice shirt” before they change seats. It’s not without irony that when you hear someone whistle on the street, you look to see who’s behind you or what’s unzipped.
And a sense of humor or even the ridiculous is what’s needed to cope with aging. Without them there’s the temptation to become angry and resentful.
Well-meaning friends have told me that 80 is the new 60. Eighty is nothing other than the new 79. I don’t find comfort in hearing that age is only a number or you’re only as old as you feel so please stop your well-intentioned comforting. I know that I look, feel and act 80.
I’m probably more fortunate than many other 80-year-olds. My doctors care not just for me but about me as well. They share test and procedure results and along with my pharmacist, the unsung hero of HIV treatment, consult one another about the possibility of conflicting prescribed medications.
What is important to an 80 year old is “right now,” not a week from Friday, next February, another survey or study or a panel discussion. On a Monday, Garbo was asked to dinner on Saturday. “How do I know if I’ll be hungry on Saturday?” she asked. We thrive on spontaneity, reminiscence and acknowledgment. We want to share our valued experiences. We still have contributions to make.
More than a decade ago, a hospital social worker to whom I went with a confusing Public Aid problem, introduced me to Ann Fisher, Executive Director of AIDS Legal Council of Chicago, who immediately resolved the problem and has resolved many more since.
I volunteered to keep the Council in its good work and continue to do so. I’m a member of Chicago Area HIV Service Planning Council that assesses needs for HIV/AIDS funding priorities and evaluates how federal Ryan White Part A funds are distributed to the community. I serve on the Council’s Quality Management and Evaluation Committee.
There are opportunities to contribute and share for the aging—welcome opportunities.
Think of aging as a focus,
not a limitation or a handicap.
I am thankful to have this blog to set things straight about aging and if you will bear with me, there’s something more I’d like all of you to know.
Not long ago, a major HIV/AIDS Chicago treatment facility now in deep trouble because of recent financial mismanagement and threatening to close if it doesn’t receive immediate funding, began a much publicized senior program which was funded in part by a Jewish non-profit grant. I couldn’t imagine what it could do that wasn’t already being done by the senior program at the nearby Center on Halsted so as Exhibit A, I contacted the facility for information and to let it be known that I might be of some use to the program as a volunteer.
I was put on to a young woman who was brought from the East to run the program. This had to be done at some expense. We met and she confided in me that all she had been instructed to do since arriving was to spend time in south side gay bars interviewing older if not aged clients. She was not familiar with the city or communities within it. I did my best to introduce her to some of those who it might be to her advantage to know.
The next thing I knew, she had been replaced by a much heralded advocate for aging gays, a woman who directs the SAGE program and was also brought from the East Coast at an even greater expense. It was my understanding that she would continue with SAGE in the East as well as directing the Chicago program.
Suddenly, there was nothing more about her or the program in the papers so I called and was told by a facility employee that the program which barely got off the ground had been shelved for financial reasons and that she, the facility employee, was responsible for what, if anything, remained of it. That employee later left the facility to take the position as regional SAGE director working out of the Center on Halsted. What a waste of funding which must discourage those who backed the program from considering grants for other HIV/AIDS and/or aging programs.
A suggestion for those who are responsible for programs for the aged: Pick a director who is a local, someone who knows what conditions and experience we have had, preferably someone who is not half our age who can relate to our concerns, problems and needs.
Finally,
for those of you who are 80
or pushing it,
delight in your good fortune.
Regardless of the shape you’re in,
every day more is a bonus!
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Qind is Fixated on Fellatio, and More
Qind is an online relationship magazine that explores how we relate to ourselves, each other and the world around us in a positive way through the sharing of experiences
May sure to check out the latter - Fixated on Fellatio - by Julian Beckedahl
The phallus is designed to be stimulated and men do go to great lengths to coax their sex organ to climax. In this liberated era of sexual diversity and fetish preferences, it’s easy to forget that a tried and tested method of successful phallic arousal is oral sex. For most men, nothing beats the warm, soft and moist enclosure of an expansive mouth: an accommodating and willing orifice that knows exactly how to wet, lick, suck and rhythmically work the penis to the point of an aching, heated, shuddering and unstoppable orgasmic release!
Vancouver Hosts Gay Men's Summit Nov 25 - 6

Gays in Canada love to talk. And they’re pulling no stops this year at the BC Gay Men’s Summit from November 25 to November 26. The event is open to all gay men, as well as those folks who are currently engaged in working or volunteering around gay men’s health issues.
The line up this year’s discussion looks GREAT. Here’s a snapshot of what’s on the program:
- Supporting gay youth: how do we nurture resilience in gay teens? Experiences from a northern BC town.
- Unmasking the “gender factor” in gay men’s health: a review of the latest information from the national Sex Now! survey of gay men
- The Pig Sex Project: an exploration of the experience and knowledge of those of us who identify as sex pigs.
- What’s going on with HIV Post Exposure Prophylaxis in Canada? Why is it not freely available in most of Canada for gay guys?
- Preliminary results from the Toronto bathhouse survey!
- Does mental wellness make us more resilient to HIV infections?
- Increased criminal charges being laid against poz guys for not disclosing HIV status: how are we going to respond?
To register, or to check out the official program go to the Summit website. Check out our Facebook event page and follow us on Twitter or the discussion at #BCGaySummit. The summit is free for students and volunteers from local organizations.
So who's going to Vancouver? Can you bring LifeLube along?
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Pope Says Okay to Condoms for Rent Boys
via CNN.comPope Benedict XVI's possible shift on condom use is a "significant and positive step forward," the head of the United Nations anti-AIDS campaign said, welcoming the potentially historic remark.
"This move recognizes that responsible sexual behavior and the use of condoms have important roles in HIV prevention," UNAIDS executive director Michel Sidibe said in a statement.
"This will help accelerate the HIV prevention revolution," he said Saturday.
The Roman Catholic Church firmly opposes artificial contraception, including condoms.
The pope caused a firestorm of protest last year when he spoke out against condoms as a way of controlling AIDS during a trip to Africa, the continent hardest hit by the disease.
But he outlined a possible exception in remarks published Saturday.
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Friday, November 19, 2010
Feel the Love... Sister Glo Likes it Greek
At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.
Love is all you need with Sister Glo each Friday on LifeLube.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
German Soccer Player Says Come Out Come Out
via Loud and Queer
The Bayern Munich striker Mario Gomez has broken ranks with the soccer establishment, including his own team and the German football federation, and urged gay players to come out!
Gomez, who has not said whether he is gay, told a German magazine that being honest about sexuality would improve gay players’ performance.
“They would play as if they had been liberated,” Gomez said. “Being gay should no longer be a taboo topic.”
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[don't you just love soccer players?]
The Bayern Munich striker Mario Gomez has broken ranks with the soccer establishment, including his own team and the German football federation, and urged gay players to come out!
Gomez, who has not said whether he is gay, told a German magazine that being honest about sexuality would improve gay players’ performance.
“They would play as if they had been liberated,” Gomez said. “Being gay should no longer be a taboo topic.”
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[don't you just love soccer players?]
Clean Your Kitchen - Guests Are Cumming
Always nice to be reminded of helpful hints such as these for keepin that thing clean
via Mike Alvear of Need Wood?
...Most people don’t need to douche as long as they eat right and shit effortlessly. Believe it or not, taking a dump the wrong way, regularly holding in farts or eating poorly will increase the chances of brown bed sheets.
Read the whole thing here.
via Mike Alvear of Need Wood?
...Most people don’t need to douche as long as they eat right and shit effortlessly. Believe it or not, taking a dump the wrong way, regularly holding in farts or eating poorly will increase the chances of brown bed sheets.
Read the whole thing here.
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
It Does Get Better - But Not Because of YOU
"When you grow up, you little depressed gay teenagers, when you grow up you can deal with people like me. I'll judge you. Don't worry. You don't have to have the homophobes judge you, because we will."
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