Showing posts with label transmen. Show all posts
Showing posts with label transmen. Show all posts

Monday, December 31, 2012

The BEST of Lifelube - "Transmen - body, sex, identity and more" From Tuesday, September 28, 2010

What are Transmen's HIV Prevention Needs?
via Youths 2gether Network (Nigeria)


Excerpt:

Accurate information about the diversity of transmen’s bodies is not widely available. Transmen have different types of bodies, depending on their use of testosterone and gender confirmation surgeries (which may include chest reconstruction, hysterectomy, metoidioplasty, phalloplasty, 1 etc.; seewww.ftmguide. org for further information) . Transmen use a broad range of terms and language to identify their sex/gender, describe their body parts, and disclose their trans status to others. For instance, some transmen are not comfortable with the terms ‘vagina’ and ‘vaginal sex’ and may prefer ‘front hole’ and ‘front sex’ or ‘front hole sex’, although this is not true for all transmen. This diversity creates unique needs and barriers for negotiating and adhering to safer sex practices that are not addressed by current HIV prevention programs.

Read more.

Great resource - check it:
Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Transmen and the Men Who Dig Them

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

FTM Kye Allums is NCAA's First Openly Transgender Athlete


Via CNN - Everything will be the same when Kye Allums takes to the court in the university's season opener later this month. Just that female-bodied Allums, 21, will be identified as a man,

"I decided to transition, that is change my name and pronouns because it bothered me to hide who I am, and I am trying to help myself and others to be who they are," Allums said in his statement.

In his sophomore year, he began telling people he was a man trapped in a woman's body.

"I told my teammates first, and they, including my coaches, have supported me," he said. "My teammates have embraced me as the big brother of the team. They have been my family, and I love them all."
becoming the first openly transgender player in NCAA Division I basketball.

"This means a lot," Allums said in a statement. "I didn't choose to be born in this body and feel the way I do."

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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Transmen - body, sex, identity and more

What are Transmen's HIV Prevention Needs?
via Youths 2gether Network (Nigeria)


Excerpt:

Accurate information about the diversity of transmen’s bodies is not widely available. Transmen have different types of bodies, depending on their use of testosterone and gender confirmation surgeries (which may include chest reconstruction, hysterectomy, metoidioplasty, phalloplasty, 1 etc.; see www.ftmguide. org for further information) . Transmen use a broad range of terms and language to identify their sex/gender, describe their body parts, and disclose their trans status to others. For instance, some transmen are not comfortable with the terms ‘vagina’ and ‘vaginal sex’ and may prefer ‘front hole’ and ‘front sex’ or ‘front hole sex’, although this is not true for all transmen. This diversity creates unique needs and barriers for negotiating and adhering to safer sex practices that are not addressed by current HIV prevention programs.

Read more.

Great resource - check it:
Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Transmen and the Men Who Dig Them


Tuesday, August 17, 2010

Giving Voice to the Once-Silent



Via New York Times...

“WE figured we’ll print 500 copies and they’ll take months to sell,” Rocco Kayiatos said the other day, referring to Original Plumbing, a quarterly he started a little over a year ago with a friend, Amos Mac.

“We just thought there was a need because the world is pretty much ignorant of the existence of transmen,” said Mr. Kayiatos, a poet and rapper who performs under the name Katastrophe and who, like Mr. Mac, identifies himself as a transman.

It turned out that Mr. Kayiatos’s assumptions were both right and wrong. It is true that a lot of people remain uninformed, if not about the existence of transmen — to use an umbrella term for someone born female who identifies as male (think of Chaz Bono) — then about the variety of the experiences that fall under the rubric and transmen’s growing cultural presence.

Those people probably don’t live in the Bay Area, where the zine is published, and where transmen have been gathering over the past decade in numbers no official agency has counted. But the scope of the population can be guessed at from its visibility on the local scene.

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Thursday, June 3, 2010

International Mister Leather 2010 - Breaking Boundaries Like a MoFo


It can be hard to maintain a positive attitude in life when you are part of a much disparaged group such as the LGBT or HIV community, but you know what they say - life, lemons, lemonade. Check out what wheelchair-bound transman Tyler McCormick did with his lemons...

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

LifeLuber Talks Sacred Sexuality

Lifelube's own Pistol Pete Subkoviak sat on a panel to discuss sexuality, diversity and spirituality at the Bodhi Spiritual Center in Chicago. The group discussed the hardships of growing up in religions and cultures that do not accept LGBT individuals, how they dealt with the challenges of their differences and how they now celebrate their Sacred Sexuality. Check it out below and hop over to Bodhi's website to see the entire Sacred Sexuality lectures!



Check out Part 2, Part 3 and Part 4!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Who's That Queer [Billy Tipton]

Brought to you by Pistol Pete


Billy Lee Tipton (born as Dorothy Lucille Tipton; December 29, 1914 – January 21, 1989) was an American jazz musician and bandleader who lived as a man for nearly 50 years. Tipton found modest success as a professional musician, but until his dying moments, the fact that Tipton had been born biologically female was known only to a few people.

Dorothy Tipton was born in Oklahoma City. As a high school student, she went by the nickname "Tippy" and became interested in music, especially jazz. She studied piano and saxophone, but her school had a policy forbidding girls to play in the school band.


In 1933, Tipton began dressing as a man, which allowed Tipton to blend with the other members of the jazz bands with whom Tipton played in small Oklahoma bars. As Tipton began a more serious music career, Tipton adopted her father's nickname, Billy, and more actively concealed her female body by breast-binding and packing. At first, Tipton only presented as male in performance, but by 1940 Tipton was living as a man in her private life as well.

During a performance on tour at King's Supper Club in Santa Barbara, California, a talent scout from Tops Records heard them play and got them a contract. The Billy Tipton Trio recorded two albums of jazz standards for Tops.

After the albums' success, the Billy Tipton Trio was offered a position as house band at the Holiday Hotel in Reno, Nevada, and Tops Records invited the trio to record four more albums. Tipton declined both offers, choosing instead to move to Spokane, Washington, where he worked as a talent broker and the trio was the house band at Allen's Tin Pan Alley, performing weekly.

As noted, early in his career, Tipton cross-dressed only professionally, continuing to present as a woman otherwise. He spent those early years living with a woman named Non Earl Harrell, in a relationship which other musicians thought of as lesbian. The relationship ended in 1942. His next relationship, with a singer known only as "June", lasted for several years.

For seven years, Tipton lived with Betty Cox, who was 19 years old when they became involved. According to Betty, they had a heterosexual relationship. Betty remembered him as "the most fantastic love of my life." Tipton kept the secret of his extrinsic sexual characteristics from Betty by inventing a story that he had been in a serious car accident which had badly damaged his genitals and broken some ribs, and that to protect the damaged chest he had to bind it. From then on, this was what he would tell the women in his life.

After Betty ended their relationship, he quickly became involved with Maryann Catanach, a prostitute. According to Maryann, theirs was a normal sexual relationship, and she did not know that Tipton had female genitals, since he dressed in private, had sex only in the dark, and preferred to touch, not to be touched.

In 1960, he ended this relationship to settle down with nightclub dancer and stripper Kitty Kelly, who was known professionally as "The Irish Venus." Kitty said that they never had sex but had an otherwise normal life. They were involved with their local PTA and with the Boy Scouts. They adopted three sons, John, Scott, and William. After Tipton's death, Kitty gave several interviews about him and their relationship. In early interviews, she said, “He gave up everything... There were certain rules and regulations in those days if you were going to be a musician,” in reference to breaking into the 1920-30's music industry as a woman, and, “No one knew. It was the best-guarded secret since Houdini.” But in later interviews she denied having known that Tipton was a trans man, a denial that sons John and Scott did not believe. William described Tipton as a good father who loved to go on Scout camping trips.


In 1989, at the age of 74, he had symptoms he attributed to emphysema and refused to call a doctor. In actuality he was suffering from a hemorrhaging peptic ulcer, which, untreated, was fatal. It was while paramedics were trying to save Tipton's life, with son William looking on, that William learned that his father was biologically female. Tipton was pronounced dead at Valley General Hospital. The coroner shared the revelation with the rest of the family. In an attempt to keep Billy's secret, Kitty arranged for his body to be cremated. But one of his sons went public with the story.

Two wills were left by Tipton; one handwritten and not notarized which left everything to William Jr. and the second, notarized, leaving everything to Jon Clark. A court upheld the first will, and William inherited almost everything, with John and Scott receiving a dollar each.

Source: Wikipedia

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

How is Diego Sanchez healthy?

Look, no one is perfect, and no one makes the best decisions always. 
 




In past years, people who web-searched my name bumped into “Where in the world is Carmen Sandiego?”  Later they were greeted by Dora the Explorer’s, “Go, Diego, go!”  I guess I’m getting closer to health because today, if you web-search my name, you encounter a photo and profile of a handsome, young Latino champion mixed martial artist. 

No, I’m not he.  I’m the adopted, naturalized, older, not-as-cute, Latino transsexual guy who leverages a different kind of fight.  I fight for our community and for our lives.

To me, being or staying healthy entails several things.  My “healthy” checklist includes being safe, honest, respectful, engaged, grateful, humble, hopeful, inspired, conscious in my decision-making and as medically well as possible as often as possible.  Physical fitness is on my list, as is a two-week vacation in Hawaii or Arizona – both are part of my past, and they are on my radar for my future.

I’m reminded of my Uncle Gene who for decades said, “Every day’s a gift,” as he revealed part of a clever grin that let you know there’s more to the sentence than crossed his lips.  After he retired, he’d say, “Every day’s a holiday.”  When I consider the danger and constant risk so many people in my communities face daily -- reminded just a couple of weeks ago on Nov. 20, the International Transgender Day of Remembrance when we tallied our annual loss at more than 160 people, mostly of color, predominantly poor --  I recognize each day that I exist as a gift and a holiday.  It’s my charge to make each day a celebration. 
I’m fortunate that when my parents went to an orphanage, they asked for the infant closest to death, and that infant was I.  
They did the same when they chose my brother four years later.  I’m lucky to be emotionally balanced and mentally fit.  I suppose my next step could be to get on my bike more often or run and lift a little more each day.  I take my life in stride.  As an adopted person, I have to presume that I’m predisposed to get everything on that physicians’ checklist.  I do get annual checkups, hormone panels when needed and yes, because I’m over 50 colonoscopies.  Here’s why:  Is there a family history of heart attacks?  Maybe.  Any relatives ever had a stroke? Possibly.  How about diabetes?  Could be.  I am diligent about being vigilant.  It’s all about moderation and balance, so I have my checklist in tow.  I ponder it.  Look, no one is perfect, and no one makes the best decisions always.  We can give our best effort and not judge ourselves if we fall short sometimes.  It’s harm reduction, as we learn in the HIV/AIDS prevention and education public health arena.

Learn, smile, dust off and move on.  It’s how we grow, and it feels to me like a key reason that we age.

The most important take-away point is that I could never be healthy alone.  I need to be accountable and active in my faith, to my community, friends, family and myself.  I am humbly thankful that I am blessed to be able to live with integrity. I salute Jim Pickett for the variety of handsome men he finds to highlight on this blog.  Still, the real joy is that he features the full essence of good and great men – skin deep and beyond, never stopping with who you see, rather fearlessly profiling who you might get to know.  It’s the same healthy action that Michael Shankle at The MALE Center www.malecenter.org ensures to create such welcoming space where gay, bisexual and trans men can flourish, heal and grow.

Gentlemen and others: a nuestra salud.

-- Diego Sanchez
Boston and Washington, DC




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Friday, October 2, 2009

Original Plumbing Magazine Debuting October 3rd!


Original Plumbing, a new quarterly magazine that features the musings and images of sexy transmen, is debuting on Saturday, October 3rd, to great anticipation. According to publisher Amos Mac, OP is the literary love child of BUTT and Girls Like Us. Check out Mac's interview with SameSame here!
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