Showing posts with label PRIDE. Show all posts
Showing posts with label PRIDE. Show all posts

Friday, December 30, 2011

Youth Activisim for a Better Tomorrow

via HuffPost Gay Voices, by Warren J. Blumenfeld

It was a brilliantly sunny, though rather cool, mid-June afternoon in Boston. Banners flying, music blasting, people of all walks of life assembled, reuniting, greeting, embracing, kissing, catching up on lives lived in the space between.

The signal was given with a contagious cheer rising from the crowd, and for the next few hours the streets would be theirs:

Dykes on Bikes revving their engines; shirtless muscled young men dancing to a disco beat atop flatbed floats winding their way down the streets; dazzling drag queens in red and gold and silver; the Freedom Trail Marching Band trumpeting the call;

a black-and-white cocker spaniel wearing a sign announcing "DON'T ASSUME I'M STRAIGHT"; lesbian moms and gay dads pushing strollers or walking beside youth of all ages; Gays for Patsy Klein decked out in their finest country duds, two-stepping down the boulevard;

AIDS activists falling to the pavement of those same boulevards in mock death to expose governmental and societal inaction, which is still killing so many; married same-sex couples walking hand in hand;

Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (P-FLAG) proclaiming "WE ARE PROUD OF OUR LESBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL, AND TRANSGENDER SONS AND DAUGHTERS";

alongside political, social, and service organizations, business and religious caucuses of all stripes and denominations, and of course, bystanders watching the procession, holding court from the sidelines.

And in the midst of this merriment and this protest, the humorous posters and angry placards, the enormous rainbow balloon sculptures arching overhead, and the colorful streamers and glistening "fairy dust" wafting down from open windows, amid the shiny black leather and shimmering lamé,

the multicolored T-shirts and the drab business suits, came the youth, their radiant young faces catching the rays of the sun, marching side-by-side, hand-in-hand, their middle school, high school, and college Gay/Straight Alliance banners waving exaltedly in this storm of humanity, announcing their entry, their solidarity, their feisty outrage, and yes, their pride, chanting

"Two, Four, Six, Eight, Queer is Just as Good as Straight, Three, Five, Seven, Nine, LGBTs are Mighty Fine;" then, gaining intensity, singing, "Hey Hey, Ho Ho, Homophobia Has Got to Go," and then, as if hit by an all-consuming revelation, shouting, "We're Here, We're Queer, We're Not Going Back, We're NOT Going Back, WE'RE NOT GOING BACK!"

And indeed, they will not go back into those dank closets of fear and denial that stifles the spirit and ruins so many lives. Oh, they will physically return to their schools and their homes.

They will continue to study and play sports, to watch movies, listen to their iPods, and write about their days on Facebook, MySpace and Twitter.

Some will most likely continue to serve as community organizers, and some will go on to become parents, educators and political leaders once their school days are behind.

The place they will go to, though, is nowhere that can be seen. It is a place of consciousness that teaches those who have entered that everyone is diminished when any one of us is demeaned; that heterosexism, sexism, and bisexual, intersex, and transgender oppression (as well as all the other forms of oppression) have no place in a just society.

From the sidelines of the parade, beginning as a whisper and gaining to a mighty roar of support: "We are so glad you are here," came voices from the crowd.

"We wish we could have done this when we were in grade school and in college," cried others too numerous to count. "Thank you so much for your courage!"


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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Gay Pride: It's every choice we make.

As Pride month comes to an end, I want people to reflect on their inner "pride" and the journey it took to get there. I believe that My Fabulous Disease really captures that journey in this PSA..



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Friday, June 24, 2011

Here’s to the Memories

 By D' Ontace Keyes

As I pick out my outfit for this year’s Pride celebration, I think about my first Pride celebration in 2005. I was 15 years old and so FRESH! I was a hungry boy waiting to get a taste of the gay culture.

At the time I was sheltered from everything “gay”, forced to live what could be considered a normal suburban life. Not so bad because I was able to excel in things like my education, but horrible when it came to trying to express myself. I felt colorless, trapped in a closet of evening plaid.

 Luckily, I had a boyfriend that would steal me away to the city. I was amazed at the amount of young people that would frequent the streets of Boyztown, voguing the night away on Halsted Street and just being free. I, too, wanted to be free.

The day I decided to attend Pride was actually the day I found out I was being cheated on. I was so upset, and I wanted to attend only to catch him in the act. I decided that I must find a way to attend Pride. I wasn’t out at the time, so I couldn’t tell my guardians I was going to a Pride celebration, no matter how much I thought they weren’t aware of my sexuality.  Actually, they were aware; they just tried to “straight-wash” me, believing that one day I would break away from my “path with the devil.” 

 So I worked out the typical “I’m somewhere I’m not” plan and left after church to visit “grandmother’s house” and made sure I prayed away the sins for the day, just for my parents’ sake!

It was a long ride up to Boyztown, but at that moment, I didn’t care. I was so excited for the experience that nothing could really bring me down. 

I met this lesbian while I was on the train that was so very pretty. She said I was cute too, like a girl.  She made me feel “cunty”, as the young queens will say today. We switched numbers in hopes to hang out later. I figured I had nothing to lose so why not.

I got to Boyztown, wondering where I should go and what to do. The parade was over and I was clueless as to what to do next. Strange and not so strange men were hitting on me and I LOVED It! I felt like my “Pride” has begun!
I called the lesbian I met earlier and she invited me to meet her at Montrose Beach. She was there with her friends and thought it will be cool to hang out. We met up and I was amazed at the sight of people freely showcasing their pride.

I didn’t hang with her very long, and I walked down the stroll for the rest of the time I was there. I got hit on a lot, and shamelessly switched numbers with people too. 

The surprising moment was when I ran into a friend of the family. I was scared boots! I wanted to run but he quickly spotted me. We greeted each other, a greeting that could be mistaken for flirting. We switched numbers, promising to keep word, and to hook up later. 

The day was getting late and I needed to get home before curfew. I never caught my boyfriend because we played cat and mouse the whole day. Its alright, we didn’t last much longer after that because I found someone to offer me something more substantial. 

Luckily, I got home before curfew and I thought I got away with murder. NOT!

So you remember the family friend? Well he outed me! WTF! Of course I denied the whole thing despite the evidence. They never believed it and I was crowned the queen of the town. Looking back, it’s all so funny to me.  Well, here’s to the memories.

Friday, June 10, 2011

Are Black Gay Circuit Parties A Hotbed for HIV?

via Living Out Loud with Darian

As the winter months disappear and summer approaches, the change in weather provides the perfect opportunity to strip off all the layers and wear as little as possible as you revel in the compliments of both male and female admirers as they fawn over your chiseled physique.

There’s a list of beach parties, cookouts, and annual events on your calendar and none of it will start until you arrive. Your biggest dilemma is making sure your chosen wardrobe for the weekend will turn heads the minute you step out of your hotel room-pardon me-your suite.

You’re black, gay, single, sexy, and free and you have a plethora of choices, from the breathtaking beaches of Miami and the sexy men of Sizzle, to the sinful allure of Tempted 2 Touch in Las Vegas, to the exotic island of the Dominican Republic, home of Inferno DR. Everything you could possibly want in a vacation experience and more is at your fingertips; men, sex, drugs, alcohol and HIV, an undesirable party favor but available nonetheless.

Black gay circuit parties have long held a reputation for offering more than is appropriate to be placed on advertisements. The organized and costly events taking place during the day may be a draw for some, but the prospect of experiencing multiple sexual encounters over the course of the weekend is at the top of the “to do list” for many attendees.

It should be understood that with any large gathering of people the opportunity to engage in sexual intercourse is always present, besides we are sexual beings with a desire to connect on an intimate level. But with every unprotected sexual encounter there’s a risk of being infected with a sexually transmitted disease, and in the case of black gay men who are heavily impacted by HIV, circuit parties catering to this population can easily become a hotbed for transmission. Well, at least that’s one theory.

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Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Obama's White House LGBT Stonewall Event: Transcript, Guest List

[note - AIDS Foundation of Chicago's David Munar (right) - representing the National Association of People with AIDS - was among the guests at this event.]


via Towleroad

President Obama hosted 250-300 LGBT leaders in the East Room of the White House today, billed as a celebration marking the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall rebellion and Pride month. Obama acknowledged gay rights pioneer Frank Kameny, to whom the government recently apologized for firing in 1957, because he was gay.

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Saturday, May 16, 2009

Register now for Proud to Run 2009


6/27/09 8:04am

Proud To Run is a 10K run, 5K run and 2 mile fun walk that celebrates lesbian and gay pride. We welcome everyone, regardless of sexual orientation, who wishes to join us in the celebration and show their support. Proud To Run also raises funds to help health and service organizations. Proud To Run is presented in association with Frontrunners/Frontwalkers Chicago, Chicago's LGBT running and walking club. This will be the 28th annual event. Click here to learn more, and to register.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Friday, June 15, 2007

First Freedom First does PRIDE


Dear Friend of First Freedom First,

This summer, First Freedom First will be busy raising awareness across America on all the issues you've come to know us by this past year. As the Religious Right is ramping up their agenda to denigrate gay Americans, we'll be advocating Respect for All Families at Pride Festivals across the country. And, we need your help.

We hope you can volunteer to help us hand out stickers and grab signatures at one of the Pride events listed below. The more help we get, the more support we'll be able to show for safeguarding separation of church and state, and protecting religious liberty. Even an hour helps! To volunteer at one of these events, please send an email to questions@firstfreedomfirst.org with the name of the pride festival in the subject line.


NYC Pride Rally, June 17


Atlanta Pride, June 22-24


San Francisco Pride, June 23-24


Can't make it but would still like to help? Host a First Freedom First House Party this July 4th! Turn a summer pool party or cookout into a First Freedom First event. Just add a few of our fun stickers, toss in a screening of the First Freedom First video and you've got a First Freedom First House Party. We'll send you everything you need - including a new release of the First Freedom First DVD - for free.

To volunteer with us at Pride or host a house party, please contact project managers Bethany Moore and Eric Shutt at questions@firstfreedomfirst.org. We hope to hear from you!

All the best,
The First Freedom First Team

Beth Corbin and Bethany Moore of Americans United for Separation of Church and State

Donna Red Wing and Eric Shutt of The Interfaith Alliance Foundation

"What makes us special and different from other countries is that our right to decide whether and how to worship is a private matter protected by the Constitution."

- www.firstfreedomfirst.org

First Freedom First
P.O. Box 1496
Washington, DC 20013

A partnership of
The Interfaith Alliance Foundation
and Americans United for Separation of Church and State


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