
Your field guide to gay men's health. The blog is no longer active, but is still available to use as an information resource.
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Cyndi Lauper Shines Through for Boston's AIDS Walk

Friday, May 30, 2008
Rugby Boys Learn New Ball-Handling Skills
In this fun, sexy, and informative video, a rugby team disrobes with the help of a health professional to learn how to examine their testicles for lumps that may signal testicular cancer.
Related lifelube post - feel yourself up
Thursday, May 29, 2008
The plague is over, let's party

by Elizabeth Pisani in Prospect
Pisani is an epidemiologist and the author of The Wisdom of Whores. Check out her blog by the same name here.
She has been stirring the pot on a number of listservs that LifeLube is on - we thought we'd let you lick the spoon on this provocative essay about HIV/AIDS and gay men in Britian.
Taste good?
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thanks to costly new drugs.
But as the spectre of death fades, so do the
most visible reasons to avoid risky behaviour.
Now the Aids prevention industry has a whole new set of problems .
I'm in a bar in Soho. A message flashes up on the plasma screen on the wall behind me: "Tom, I want to nibble your biltong." A guy leaning against the banisters makes a show of putting his mobile phone away while making eye contact with a cute blond boy at the bar. Cute blond blushes. Soon, they're smooching in a corner. How Tom's biltong fared that night I don't know, but I can guess.
This is London's gay scene in a world without Aids. Since treatment for HIV became available in the mid-1990s, Aids has all but evaporated in rich countries. Annual deaths among gay men in Britain have crashed from a peak of over 1,162 in 1994 to just 153 in 2007. "Aids? I've never met anyone with Aids," says Tim, an engineering undergraduate who's sitting under the plasma screen, nursing a nasty pre-mixed drink. When I ask how many of the guys around us might be infected with HIV, he looks shocked. "That's not a nice thing to talk about. I don't know, 4 or 5 per cent?" Actually, the government estimates that around 9 per cent of gay men in London are HIV-infected, against 5 per cent elsewhere. But we're not looking at all gay men in London. We're looking at guys in a pick-up bar at 1am on Friday night; I'm probably the only person here who will leave without being propositioned. Many of the men eyeing each other up are in their 30s; they've had plenty of time to get infected. My guess is that 25 per cent of the men in this room have HIV, possibly a lot more. In 2006, 2,640 gay men were diagnosed with HIV—making up nearly two thirds of the total diagnoses of HIV infections that were acquired in Britain.
You don't have to be an epidemiologist to work out that if 2,640 people are diagnosed with an incurable disease and only 153 die, the number of people known to be living with the disease will rise. The number of gay men living with HIV in Britain is probably around 31,000.
But these days you never see a cadaverous looking 35 year old in an armchair surrounded by friends trying not to notice that his face is covered by the black splotches of Kaposi's sarcoma, a cancer that feeds on people weakened by HIV. And as Aids disappears, so does the most visible reason to avoid unprotected sex. Just under half of gay men say they had some unprotected anal sex in the last year, up from under a third in 1996, when treatment became widespread. But if HIV isn't fatal any more, does it really matter if lots more people get infected?
The relationship between HIV treatment and prevention in the gay community is not straightforward. Virology, psychology, drugs and gay activist ideology play their part. Let's start with the virology. HIV is not very infectious. It is only easily transmitted when there's a high "viral load"—lots of free virus in the blood or genital fluids—and that is usually only for the first couple of months after a person gets infected, and then, years later, once they get sick. That means that people who have unprotected sex with several people in a three-month period are far more likely both to contract and spread HIV than people who have the same number of partners over a longer period. And gay men are far more likely than straight people to have lots of partners at once. A recent study of people who go drinking and clubbing in nine European cities found that gay or bisexual men were four times more likely than even out-to-have-fun heterosexuals to have had five or more recent partners.
Read the rest.
Open relationships demystified

secrets of Jackson park
So its this park on the south side of Chicago, its beautiful with all types of wild life, so the first time i ever been there i was fishing with my Dad and my Sister . so we had to walk across this bridge to into the Chinese garden i was like man this is beautiful, trees , flowers but a lot of guys blowing kisses at me. I was like wow what's going on, remind i was at the age of 10 when this happened and i remembered my dad calling it funny bunny gardens which is another word for gay, don't ask me where he got that from because i have never found out either, but anyway i went back just to check it years later i went around enjoying myself until i saw this dude flashing his penis i was like wow that's not normal but Im a top i want to see ah Ass which i did see later on that day, but the things i saw i thought i would never see in person, people having sex outside in bushes i was like wow i thought i would only see that in a low budget porn movie the things that they do in there you wouldn't even dream of seeing, but it happens. so my advice stay away from there if you don,t want to be hit on like crazy and looked at like a piece of meat in a lions cage but if you want to be flashed and asked to have sex with its the park for you. But still visit it's beautiful.


Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Easy there buddies...
Safer sex strategies that leave condoms in their packages leave you vulnerable to other STDs, cancerCurt Hicks addresses the sexual risk-reductionists of the world and says, whoa nellies!
Advocates for HIV seroadaptation (also sero-sorting) or HAART (highly active antiretroviral therapy) as effective new risk reduction alternatives to the "condom code" rarely acknowledge how terribly vulnerable these risk reduction strategies would leave the community of sexually active PWHIV (people with HIV) to the ravages of co-infection of other incurable viral STI's.
The Annals of Internal Medicine (AIM) epidemiologic study summarized below finds that "As of 2003, anal cancer was 59 times more common among HIV-positive people than among the general population." The article itself, published here , states: "The interaction between HIV and HPV allows for persistence of HPV (human papillomavirus) infection in HIV-infected persons, who are more commonly infected with the oncogenic HPV subtypes 16 and 18, leading to development of dysplasia.
Because HAART does not alter the incidence or progression of anal intraepithelial neoplasia, persons who are successfully treated with HAART but are co-infected with HIV and HPV are expected to remain at greater risk for anal cancer over time and incidence rates are expected to increase as HIV-infected persons live longer."
The National Cancer Institute's (NCI) site summarizes research implicating (associationally or causally) several strains of HPV in many cancers of the anus, cervix, vulva, vagina, penis, soft palate, tongue, tonsils, pharynx and lungs. The AIM study found that HIV positive people were 21 times more likely to develop vaginal cancer, at 3.3 times greater risk of lung cancer, at 2.6 times greater risk for orophargeal cancers and at 2.3 times greater risk for colorectal cancers.
Over 100 HPV strains have been identified. NCI notes that while HPV types 16 and 18 alone cause about 70 percent of cervical cancers, fifteen strains of sexually transmitted, high-risk HPVs (types 16, 18, 31, 33, 35, 39, 45, 51, 52, 56, 58, 59, 66, 68, and 73) to date have been linked to cervical cancer. And research has barely scratched the surface of the health impacts of only a few of these, let alone longitudinally investigated their impacts on immuno-compromised individuals. We may yet learn that HIV coinfections with the 85+ other strains of HPV or other viruses contribute to the elevated cancer rates found by the AIM study among PWHIV, including Hodgkin's lymphoma (14.7x's higher), melanoma (2.6x's), leukemia (2.5x's), colorectal (2.3x's) or renal (1.8x's) cancers.
Enhancing freedom, sensation, and personal control are all deeply important, fundamentally human goals. Unfortunately, as any survivor can tell you, cancer can take a terrible toll on one's freedom, sensation and personal control.
The Gardisil vaccine protects against getting only four of these HPV strains. HAART prevents transmission of none of these oncogenic viruses. PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) protects against none of them. HIV sero-sorting protects against none of them.
HPV sero-sorting would require CLIA labs in every bedroom, backroom, airport restroom, bathhouse and backseat. Not to mention the PDA database folks would need to store and match two up personal profiles of 100+ results.
And apart from HPV, we know that HIV/Human herpesvirus 8 (HHV8) coinfection contributes to PWHIV's 112x greater chances of getting Kaposi's sarcoma and that HIV/HCV co-infections impact the 7.7-fold elevation of liver cancer rates found among the 50,000 PWHIV followed by this AIM study.
The impulse to abandon condoms, expressed by advocates such as openly HIV-positive Tony Valenzuela, is easy to appreciate and should be acknowledged in prevention education. Enhancing freedom, sensation, and personal control are all deeply important, fundamentally human goals. Unfortunately, as any survivor can tell you, cancer can take a terrible toll on one's freedom, sensation and personal control.
Until microbicide research provides us with a sexier, more empowering, less obtrusive barrier that can block transmission of all sexually transmitted viruses, latex remains the only reasonably effective, general STV protection we've got. (Three cheers for all our fierce microbicide advocates/heroes out there!) But until we build that better barrier, to demonize public health, as Tony does, for pointing to the numerous undesirable health outcomes of condomless sex is to shoot the messenger and deny biological reality.
Likewise, to construct HIV-only risk models and to announce that these calculations show that PrEP or HAART or seroadaptation are now viable replacements for condoms could--to the extent folks take that advice--promote devastating outcomes from other STDs among all epidemiologically vulnerable communities, particularly PWHIV. This AIM study in a sense quantifies just how much more important consistent pan-STV prophylaxis use is for our planet's 40 million PW HIV, and the answer seems to be: 2.3 to 112 times more important.
[RELATED - Read "Killer Gay Sex" by Tony Valenzuela.]
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Gay men want sexually explicit internet-based health promotion information, US study finds
The largest-ever survey to assess the health promotion information that gay men who use the internet to meet sexual partners in the United States would like to see has found that sexually explicit materials are not only acceptable across a diverse range of demographics but are preferred to non-visual, non-explicit and technical communication when describing HIV risk between men.The survey, recently published online in the journal, AIDS and Behavior, targeted more than 2,700 users of the US gay social networking site, gay.com, and also found that gay men also wanted information covering much broader topics than HIV prevention, encompassing diverse sexual and mental health concerns.
Even though a significant number of gay men are now using the internet to meet sexual partners, the concept of using internet-based approaches to HIV prevention with gay men is relatively new, and, accordingly there is little evidence-based information on which to base these interventions. (See this news report from the 2006 International AIDS Conference in Toronto for a discussion of the various types of interventions that currently exist).
Read the rest on aidsmap.
Monday, May 26, 2008
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Saints Reward Punctuality with a Tap Tap Tap

Being that today is National Tap Dance Day, the first 2,500 fans in attendance at the St. Paul Saints baseball game today will receive a bobblefoot. The foot that peaks out of the bottom of the bathroom stall taps up and down in "tribute to all the toe-tapping friends and fans from around the nation who may ever have set foot in Minneapolis-St. Paul… even for just a change of planes."
We want one!
Love to J'Doh for passing this gem along.
Saturday, May 24, 2008
Over condoms?

Can we have other means, beyond condoms, to protect ourselves?Yes, condoms are fabulous forms of protection against HIV and STDs - if you use them consistently and correctly. LifeLube strongly supports the use of condoms for fucking.
However, let's face it fellas - many of us are tired of using condoms, and we don't use them all the time. It's a fact. If you need to hyperventilate, go for it, but it won't solve anything. Shouldn't we have more options? Don't we deserve a variety of ways to protect ourselves?The future of anal sex could include alternatives to condoms - products called rectal microbicides, which could be lubricants or maybe enemas/douches that would provide protection against HIV.
Condoms need not be the only way we protect ourselves and our partners when we fuck.
There is a significant amount of research going on to create rectal microbicides - but they don't exist YET. To ensure this important work continues, advocacy is needed.
Consumers - YOU - must demand more options for protection that go beyond latex.
YOU deserve, and must demand, rectal microbicides.
YOU must be part of the research and development processes to ensure the field creates products that YOU want to use - that are fun and sexy, as well as safe and effective.
There is a global advocacy network of more than 600 members from 50 countries working to advance the research and development of safe, effective and acceptable rectal microbicides - called the International Rectal Microbicide Advocates, or IRMA for short.
IRMA would love to include YOU in its efforts to paint the future of anal sex rosy.
Learn more at IRMA's website. And visit the IRMA blog too. The future of anal sex can be different because of you.
Friday, May 23, 2008
Racism & homophobia influence HIV testing and treatment among Black gay men

In this episode of the San Francisco AIDS Foundation's regular series of podcasts, you'll hear an excerpt from the May 15th HIVision forum, What's Going On: HIV and Black Gay Men. Panelist Dr. David Malebranche answers a question about HIV testing among Black gay men with an illuminating portrait of the racism and homophobia these men may encounter when seeking medical attention.
Listen to SFAF.org Podcast #33 - Racism and homophobia influence HIV testing and treatment among Black gay men (7 minutes)
The SFAF.org podcast gives you concise biweekly updates on current HIV/AIDS topics from our experts in policy, treatment and prevention. If you need podcast help or would like to subscribe to the podcast through iTunes or another program, please visit the SFAF Podcast web site here.
[Of interest - read "The Truth in Black and White" by Dr. Malebranche, on LifeLube.]
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Hand Jive

[via the boystown column in chicago's redeye]
The Safest Sex of All
I have important news that you are going to love, especially the guys: May is National Masturbation Month.
That's right; this is the month to officially take matters into your own hands.
Adult product retailer Good Vibrations began celebrating National Masturbation Month in 1995, to raise awareness and highlight the importance of masturbation.
When I mentioned this to some of my straight friends, they didn't believe me. They all laughed it off, then changed the subject.
One guy even said "I don't do that," which I decided was a lie.
Who doesn't? I think it's not so much that he doesn't do it, it's that he doesn't want to talk about it because he is embarrassed.
What's there to be ashamed of? Ever heard the saying: "50 percent of people admit to masturbating; the other 50 percent are lying"?
It's funny how most people can be so open about their sex lives—and how it's such a huge part of pop culture—and yet masturbation still remains a conversational taboo.
So if we all do it, why not embrace it? Here are just a few reasons why self love can be good for you:
It's the safest sex you can have. There is no risk of contracting an STD, and you don't have to worry about anyone else's feelings.
It helps relieve stress and tension.
Whether you do it alone or with a partner, it's a positive way to explore your body and your sexuality in a way that can actually help spice things up in your relationship. By pleasuring yourself, you can figure out what you like and then try it out on your partner. Consider it a practice exam before the real test.
As most guys will attest to, it can help relieve a bout of insomnia. In men, the hormones released after orgasm facilitate sleep.
For men, regular masturbation can help ward off prostate cancer. According to a 2003 study by researchers from Australia's Cancer Council of Victoria, men who masturbated more than five times each week were one-third less likely to develop prostate cancer.
So honor this month by honoring yourself. For the guys, you can simply say, "I was just doing my part to help prevent cancer."
[note from lifelube - we would have to dispute the notion that gay guys lie about masturbating. in fact, every gay guy we know is very, very clear about their creative, fun and fulfilling self-loving practices - no shame to the game. must be a different crowd. as for us, we like to play amongst ourselves in the bubbles...]
Public health turns to virtual worlds to get out reality-based health messages

[snip] In a growing number of North American cities, people who learn they have a sexually transmitted disease can use a web tool known as inSPOT to inform their sexual contacts and urge them to be tested. It's like an e-vite to seek treatment. Notifications can be sent anonymously.
Toronto and Ottawa are the two Canadian cities registered with inSPOT. Last Christmas, Toronto Public Health used a new technology - proximity marketing - to advertise the service to the gay community.
Using a device called a hypertag in the city's Gay Village, a message was beamed out to all Bluetooth-enabled cellphones within range. Recipients were asked if they would agree to view a message from Toronto Public Health.
Of 1,463 phones that received the message, 317 or 21.7 per cent downloaded the information about inSPOT, says Allie Lehmann, sexual health promotion manager in the directorate of healthy living. The department recently used the technique in six city high schools to raise awareness of chlamydia prevention and testing. [snip]
Read the whole article.
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
It’s Time to End the Epidemic at Home: The Need for a National AIDS Strategy

Historic Congressional Briefing
on Urgent Needs Regarding HIV/AIDS in the U.S.
WASHINGTON, May 21, 2008 -- National leaders on HIV/AIDS convened yesterday in the Rayburn Building to hold an historic Congressional Briefing on the need for a National AIDS Strategy, and Rep. Maxine Waters (D-CA), one of the briefing’s Honorary Congressional Co-sponsors, addressed the standing-room-only gathering along with the panel.
Pictured (L-R) are Panel Moderator
The
Half of the more than 1 million people in
The unsatisfactory outcomes from our country’s response have serious human and economic costs. A study published by panelist Dr. David Holtgrave in 2003 found that failure to meet the government’s goal of reducing HIV infections by half would lead to $18 billion in excess expenses through 2010.
It’s time to end the epidemic at home. The federal government must develop a National AIDS Strategy that is results-oriented with measurable outcomes, a timeline and adequate funding. The next President must provide the leadership to make it happen, and Congress must support the National AIDS Strategy and devote the resources necessary for its development and implementation. Individuals and organizations are urged to join the call for a National AIDS Strategy by signing on at www.NationalAIDSstrategy.org.
Representative Tammy Baldwin (D-WI) - Representative Janice Schakowsky (D- IL)
Representative Donna Christensen (D-VI) - Representative Hilda Solis (D-CA)
Representative Eliot Engel (D-NY) - Representative Edolphus Towns (D-NY)
Representative
Representative Barbara Lee (D-CA) - Representative Henry Waxman (D-CA)
Organizational Cosponsors:
African American Health
AIDS Action Committee of
AIDS Action Foundation
AIDS
AIDS
AIDS Foundation of
AIDS Project
AIDS Survival Project
American Bar Association AIDS Coordinating Committee
amFAR, The Foundation for AIDS Research
Asian & Pacific Islander American Health Forum
BIENESTAR
Balm in
The Black AIDS Institute
C2EA, Campaign to End AIDS
Cascade AIDS Project
CHAMP, Community HIV/AIDS Mobilization Project
Gay Men’s Health Crisis
Housing Works
Human Rights Campaign
Latino Commission on AIDS
Log Cabin Republicans
National Association of People with AIDS
National Black Leadership Commission on AIDS
NYCAHN, NYC AIDS Housing Network
Project Inform
Whitman-Walker Clinic
Treatment Action Group
The Women’s Collective
Us Helping Us
Should hook-up sites conform to a condom code?

Buckle up, it's gonna be a bumpy ride
Thursday, June 12, 2008 - RSVP now
Join LifeLube and Project CRYSP for our next live FREE podcast forum, featuring Stephan Adelson (former GM of Manhunt) and moderators Fausto Fernos and Marc Felion of the Feast of Fools, and pick up some driving tips for Sex on the Superhighway.
Location - Center on Halsted in the Hoover Leppen Theatre.
Doors open at 6pm for nibbles and schmoozing
Taping begins at 7pm
Space is limited. RSVP now.
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Direct from Delhi - Microbicides 2008 Comes to Sweet Home Chicago
Direct from Delhi - Microbicides 2008 Comes to Sweet Home ChicagoWednesday June 25, 2008
6:00-8:00 p.m.
University Center
525 S. State Street
Chicago, IL
Please join the Chicago Women and Girls HIV Prevention Coalition and the International Rectal Microbicide Advocates for this exclusive update from across the globe on the current developments in microbicide research and advocacy - direct from the Microbicides 2008 conference held in
This dynamic event will feature microbicide advocacy leaders:
Latifa Boyce
Dázon Dixon Diallo
SisterLove, Inc.
Jim Pickett
International Rectal Microbicide Advocates
AIDS Foundation of
Being Out with Purpose - and MORE for Gay Men
A workshop for gay men who desire more passion, meaning and connection in their lives!
During this exciting, inspiring and challenging weekend - May 30 and 31 at the Center on Halsted in Chicago - partipants will have the opportunity to:- Uncover and explore their unique purpose as gay men
- Learn how their talents and gifts define their life purpose
- Challenge their self-limiting beliefs
- Envision living into their potential
Are you prepared to have a stunning life?

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