Saturday, December 29, 2012

The BEST of Lifelube - "Getting fucked 101" From Thursday, May 31, 2007


Getting fucked 101

from MetroMate/GMFA


Foreplay 
Fucking is like decorating – it's all in the preparation. Taking the time for foreplay will make fucking much more comfortable. This can include 
rimming, gentle fingering, lubrication, patience and listening to each other and responding appropriately. Making sure you take the time to do these things can all help the sphincters relax and reduce the amount of pain and discomfort men experience when having anal sex.

Positions
Different positions will be more comfortable for different couples, depending on the angle of the erection and the curvature of the penis. Any position where your knees are bent and drawn to your chest, whether you are kneeling, lying on your back or on your side, will probably lead to a more comfortable fuck, or will be a good position to start from. This position will straighten out the anal canal and the pubo-rectal sling will draw back to allow smoother entry to the arse.

RelaxIf you are relaxed then you will find it easier and more comfortable to get fucked. (Yes, this is what Frankie Goes To Hollywood were singing about). Deep breathing can help you to relax and allows the arse to relax too. Take your time and make sure you feel comfortable, physically and emotionally, if you're feeling tense or pressured it's going to be harder for you to enjoy yourself. If you're struggling to accommodate his cock, try clenching your sphincter muscles around it, and then letting them relax.

Read the rest. It's good!

Click here for more sex tips on how to give and receive blowjobs and knowing your arse better. Love these Brits!

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