... to be yourself!
via Gay.com, by Michael Moniz
Just because you do not fit the standard mold of a gay male, doesn't mean you need to change to try to cram yourself into a wrong fit. Isn't it time you give yourself permission to just be yourself?
When we think of a typical gay male, our mind takes us to all the stereotypical images we see from all the gay movies, magazines, websites, of a young, tall, handsome, male who never looks a day over 25. Almost all gay males spend all their time working to maintain this image or to achieve this look.
Of course this image doesn't represent the whole gay community. It doesn't even represent the majority, it represents the few who have the genes, the metabolism and the youth to keep it up. In time, we will all get older and we all have to face what life has given us.
I have tons of clients who struggle with this exact issue each day. I receive emails and questions from gay men stressing about their looks and fitting in. I figure it is time I share the solution which will save you all from all this work and allow you once and for all to put this topic to rest....STOP DOING IT!