Yin/Yang, Alpha/Beta and long-term relationships

A perfect match just isn't
[via The Denver Post]

Looking for a solid, long-term relationship?

Look for someone who's a little different from you — yin to your yang, alpha to your beta, says Keith Swain, a Denver couples therapist and author of the new book "Dynamic Duos: The Alpha/Beta Key to Unlocking Success in Gay Relationships."

It's not so much that opposites attract, he says, as much as romantic electricity demands a degree of positive and negative charges.

And the problem isn't one-night-stand-style chemistry, Swain says. It's long-term-relationship maintenance.

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