Sunday, March 30, 2008

Mega Body Confesses

This coming Thursday, April 3, Mega Body and other black stars from the adult entertainment industry will be joining the Chicago Black Gay Men's Caucus for a little din din and chit chat about porn, sexuality, risk and keeping it hot at the DuSable Museum. Check out the flyer below for more details.


LifeLube got on the horn with "underground celeb, exotic dancer and freelance nude model" Tahjaleenie Tahji, aka Mega Body (we prefer 'Mega", thanks) for a little advance babble about bisexuality, safe sex and his book, G-String Dreams - True Confessions of a Male Exotic Dancer. See more, hear more Thursday evening. J.C. Carter will be there too.





Here are a few snippets from our conversation:

"I am not going to lie. I have been penetrated by a man, and by a woman. My first experience being penetrated was with my wife. I prefer to be with a bisexual woman, and I have never penetrated a man...

...You don't know what you like until you have experienced it. What stops you, fear?...

...For me, safe sex works two ways. Either I know the person I am with is 100% STD free and we can do what we want to do, or the other way is masturbation. Truthfully, the only safe sex is masturbation, doing yourself. If you don't know someone's HIV or STD status, mastubation is the only way you're going to have sex with a clear mnd and not get a disease or hurt someone. Or, well, you could just bump and grind, hump each other. You can have an orgasm doing that. But most men gotta penetrate, they need that friction going on. But with the bumping and grinding, you gotta have a strong mental thing, and just really want to get into each other mentally. It takes a strong mind to do that...

...My book is not just about sex, it's about abuse, molestation, domestic violence, date rape, drugs, marriage – it's all about my real true life. I have experience all these things. It covers family, strength, focus, and definitely details all my sexual adventures with men, women and post op transgenders, the ups and the downs, and coming out and talking about my bisexuality...

...I am a survivor of many things that have happened in my life. I am not letting what happened stop me in my dreams. Regardless, don’t give up your dreams to no one. Keep moving, keep going, life doesn’t stop because something fell apart. "


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